Wednesday, October 15, 2014

The big shock

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

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denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit

denim shorts, knit, zara, oneteaspoon, chanel, céline, lara bohinc, streetstyle, fashion blogger, outfit






Knit//Pull : Zara (current collection, but can't find it online, here is a similar one from H&M, or there is this beautiful Isabel Marant knit here // Collection actuelle mais je ne le trouve pas sur l'eshop. Vous pouvez essayer ce modèle similaire de chez H&M, ou alors vous avez la version luxe chez Isabel Marant)

Shorts//Short : Oneteaspoon

Shoes//Chaussures : Chanel

Earrings//Boucles d'oreille, ring//bague : Lara Bohinc

Bag//Sac: Céline



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This post was supposed to be about how opposites attract, and how I think nothing looks as good with denim shorts than a big cosy knit, à la Alexa Chung.

But that was before something really disturbing happened to me… If you follow me on Instagram, you will know that my account has been hacked yesterday, and dozens and dozens of pornographic pictures were uploaded. Thankfully, I was up at that time, and immediately deleted the pics. But what I would only realized later, is that the thief (thieves ?) also had access to my mailbox, meaning he could change the password.

It literally lasted three hours, and it was nothing less than a nightmare : suddenly, you feel exposed, helpless and horrified… I saw the disgusted comments from lovely followers, but couldn’t do anything about it !

It’s quite a strange feeling to realize that you’re at the mercy of a person who really, really wants to hurt you. You (most likely) never even met the guy or girl, but a big part of your life is between his evil hands.

Call me naïve, but I am always shocked when something like that happens, probably because it’s beyond all comprehension for me.

When Jennifer Lawrence said her leaked naked pictures were like a rape, I thought the term was too strong. But now, even though the pictures they added were not pics of me (well, let’s just say I am not into taking pictures of myself naked haha), I understand that you feel violated in your privacy, like nothing is sacred anymore.

Maybe I am overreacting, I don’t know, and I am sorry if you feel that way, but this is the first time something like that ever happens to me, and it’s quite a shock when you find your Instagram page is ruined by some really shocking pictures ! Now I just want to find who did this, and go on with my life.

Back to fashion, I am wearing for the last time of the year my favorite denim shorts from Oneteaspoon (seriously love them !), with a big beige knit from Zara, and super classic Chanel ballerinas. This kind of association is something I love doing, as I never believed there were only winter clothes and summer clothes. Just like you can (or even more : can’t not) mix high and low and chic and cheap, fashion rules are meant to be broken, even when it comes to seasons !


  


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Ce post était censé parler de la façon dont les opposés s’attirent, et que rien ne va mieux avec un short en jean qu’un gros pull cosy, à la Alexa Chung.

Mais c’était avant que quelque chose de très perturbant m’arrive… Si vous me suivez sur Instagram, vous savez que mon compte a été piraté hier, et que des dizaines et des dizaines de photos pornographiques ont été ajoutées. Heureusement, j’étais encore réveillée quand ça s’est produit, et ai immédiatement effacé les photos. Oui mais voilà, ce que je n’ai réalisé qu’après, c’est que le (ou les) voleur avait aussi accès à toute ma boîte mail, ce qui signifie qu’il pouvait changer mon mot de passe Instagram à sa guise.

Cela a littéralement duré trois heures, et ce n’était rien de moins qu’un cauchemar : soudainement, vous vous sentez exposée, horrifiée et seule face au monde… Je voyais les commentaires dégoûtés, mais ne pouvais absolument rien faire !

C’est une sensation désagréable de réaliser que vous êtes soudainement à la merci d’une personne qui n’a qu’une envie, vous faire du mal. Vous n’avez très probablement jamais rencontré le mec ou la fille, mais une grande partie de votre vie est entre ses mains.

Peut-être suis-je naïve, mais j’ai toujours été choquée quand quelque chose comme ça survient, parce que c’est au-delà de l’entendement pour moi.

Quand Jennifer Lawrence a comparé la parution de ces photos dénudées à un viol, j’ai trouvé le terme trop fort. Mais maintenant, même si les photos ajoutées n’avaient rien à voir avec moi (disons que ce n’est pas trop mon truc de me prendre en photo nue haha), je comprends que l’on peut se sentir ‘violée’ (dans son intimité).

Peut-être que je surréagis, et je suis désolée si vous pensez que j’en fais trop de cas, mais c’est la première fois que quelque chose de ce genre m’arrive, et c’est un choc quand vous vous apercevez que votre page Instagram est ruinée par des photos vraiment choquantes. Mais maintenant je n’ai qu’une envie, trouver qui a fait ça et continuer ma vie !

Revenons à la mode donc, ici je porte, pour la dernière fois de l’année certainement, mon short en jean Oneteaspoon que j’adore, avec un gros pull beige de chez Zara, et des ballerines Chanel très classiques. C’est le genre d’assos que j’aime bien faire, et je n’ai jamais aimé le fait de séparer les fringues selon la saison. De même que vous pouvez (mieux : vous ne pouvez pas ne pas !) mixer le chic et le cheap, les règles fashion sont faites pour être transgressées, même quand il s’agit de la météo !


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50 comments :

  1. I am so so sorry to hear this happened to you. Its always difficult when this happens online because it can feel like you have no control over it and no way of redress. There are some disgusting people out there hiding behind their computers, trying to hurt others for no reason. I can't help by think that those people have no life on their own, no friends and no purpose in life so they get envious when they see someone who has what they covet.
    Stay strong. I hope you will feel better soon.
    I love your jumper BTW. I thought it was Acne until I read it is Zara! I'm making my way to the store right now...
    Kisses
    Ana
    www.champagnegirlsabouttown.co.uk

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    1. Your comment made my day ! Thank you for your kind wishes xx

      Have a great day my friend !

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  2. J'adore ce pull ! On a envie sauter dedans !!

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  3. J'adore ce pull, je le cherche encore !
    Il y a des gens qui font du mal gratuitement, c'est inacceptable..

    xoxo
    http://withstyleandchicblog.blogspot.fr/

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    1. Oui c'est clair... Le pull est introuvable je crois malheureusement !

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  4. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you.
    I hope everything is okay now.

    by the way i have the same knit and i love it. <3

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    1. It's such a comfy knit, i love it :) And thank you so much !

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  5. je veux un pull doudou moi aussi! celui ci est juste parfait, couleur, forme..niqueL!


    www.letiziabarcelona.com

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  6. Coucou,

    Magnifique ton pull ! :D

    Sarah, http://sarahmodeee.blogspot.fr/

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  7. love your pullover! i am sorry to hear about your instagram account :( hopefully it wont happen again.

    xx cesanne

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  8. Que tu es jolie, très élégante!
    xx,
    http://keep-mydream.blogspot.fr/

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  9. I like how unexpected the black Chanel pumps are with this outfit and the Zara knit looks irresistibly cosy! I am so sorry to hear that your Instagram was hacked, that sounds impossibly horrible and I can imagine how you must be feeling - thank goodness you've regained power over your account! Treat yourself with some TLC this week girl as you must still be feeling a little shocked (and no doubt experiencing an adrenaline rush)!

    http://aglassofice.blogspot.co.uk

    x

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    1. Haha I most certainly was :) You are so kind, thank you so much my dear !!

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  10. Totally agree with you, love the mix of a chunky sweater with shorts or a skirt!! Just uploaded a similar combo on my blog, haha ;)
    And as I already wrote on IG, I was so shocked when I read your story. Thankfully you were able to fix everything!

    Love from Munich, L

    THESTYLECIRCUS.net

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  11. It's a chunky summer. This look is so darn cute. The ballet slipper balances out a lot of leg very nicely. The over-sized sweater reminds us that is indeed fall.Great styling.

    www.stylegonerogue.com
    Instagram: koshercoco

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  12. Amazing!

    There's a new post online, I'm waiting for you!
    BABYWHATSUP.COM

    My new GIVEAWAY open worldwide is waiting for u!

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  13. Love this look!

    http://beautyfollower.blogspot.gr

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  14. I really hope you can get your account back, I would be sooooo pissed if this happened to mine!!! I'm glad I didn't see the images the hacker uploaded! I really really don't get people who do that kind of stuff! Good luck with figuring it out Caro! xx

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    1. That's so nice thank you so much ! I have my account back :)

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  15. I'm sorry to hear your phone was stolen and your privacy compromised. Glad to hear you have things under control again. I missed the scandal on instagram! Anyway, this sweater is awesome and cozy looking. Love it!

    www.mrsfranzos.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank God you didn't see the pics ! And thank you so much for your kind words !

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  16. Tu es merveilleuse, ton sac est splendide et ton pull quelle merveille.
    Bisous
    http://lessecretsdemary.com

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  17. This is just horrific! I'm so sorry you had to endure so much stress. What kind of person would do something like that?? It is beyond my comprehension, but I'm glad you got the matter sorted so quickly.

    Anyways, great transitional outfit. I looove the Zara jumper, but have not been able to locate it anywhere...it drives me nuts..hahaha..

    Jasmin xx

    http://www.whatdefinesus.com

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    1. Always so kind... Your words mean the world, as it's been tough ! And thank you, I love that sweater :)

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  18. Wonderful :)

    http://lamodestieaveclestyle.blogspot.com/

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  19. This sweater is so beautiful!! :)

    Kisses ♥ Joana
    TheBlondeLion

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  20. That sweater is FANTASTIC! I must get my butt into a Zara to track it down immediately, I'm sooo obsessed!

    xo
    Ash
    http://www.vogueanatomy.blogspot.com

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    1. Haha thank you so much ! However, I believe it's unfortunately sold out !

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  21. Ben dis donc c'est une sacrée histoire ce qui t'es arrivé! Je ne sais pas comment je réagirais si ça m'arrivait!
    Mais bon, parlons mode, j'adore ton pull, il est trop beau!
    Deltreylicious
    http://blackbeauty-mode-tendance.eklablog.com

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  22. Le pull est superbe ! Continue comme çà :)
    Les Bas Laines

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  23. Vraiment désolée de ce hackage dont tu as été victime, j'espère que l'enquête donnera qqch!! je comprends tout à fait que tu puisses comparer cela à un viol, courage Caroline, aller de l'avant est la meilleure solution!!
    Quoi qu'il en soit ta tenue est superbe!!

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    1. C'est adorable, merci beaucoup !! Je compare ça à un viol de mon intimité, pas vraiment à un viol :) Mais c'est vrai que cela reste choquant !

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  24. J'adore l'association pull XXL / mini short en jean :)

    http://lesplacardsdemora.blogspot.com

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